Forgiveness
In life, bad experiences happen. We can make peace with it or not. What happens when we don’t ?
The remembrance of that “bad” event is like a cord connecting us to the past. As it is loaded by strong feelings and emotions, this energy can be heavy. Remembering it, makes it be kept in our present. It can prevent us from going forward, making it harder to evolve or to move on new experiences. Even if it’s well hidden in our memory, it is still active if peace isn’t made with it.
Do you want to walk everyday of your life with this cord in your hand ? Doesn’t it feel tiring to hold this rope attached to this heavy luggage. Cause sometimes this is what we do… What happens if you let it go and leave it now ?
When you drop this cord, this link to past, you let go something. In that moment you might feel like a heavy load leaving you, making you feel lighter, more free. As this happens, something opens up, a little door, the sun through the clouds, something feeling good, you hear music in your head… This divine moment is Yours, expression of the Divinity in you!
Maybe later you’ll even realize it was a good experience, and understand something very valuable of it. You can be thankful cause it helped you to see a perspective of who you are.
Forgiving someone is giving him a chance to forgive themselves.
When you choose to express to him or her that you forgive them, it takes off that person the pressure and they can more freely forgive themselves. You help them to learn something important of that whole experience.
Forgiving someone is forgiving yourself.
You are the manifestation of a higher essence here, and when you feel hurt by someone or some situation, you create a separation from the magnificent being you truly are. Cause nothing can really happen to you, you are beyond any situation you create here. It’s actually by feeling hurt, that you are hurt.
One day or another, our unresolved past comes back to us, we can’t do anything to avoid it. At any moment our life can present it to us, and by the time it happens, we live with those feelings inside. I feel a good approach to deal with it, is through consciousness: i choose to do it now! By doing it now, i take control of my life and by this choice, i choose a better life.
Before, it doesn’t feel very good, but afterward it’s always a wonderful experience of release and letting go, opening to new and fresh energies, events or experiences.
This phrase can help you release old events you want forgive yourself:
“I AM a Great Being beyond that event! This experience made me learn better who I AM. I AM thankful.”
As a last word to ease this process: drink a lot of water, it is very much related to that kind of release. Prepare a glass of water by telling to the water to enter your body and help you release anything you want from your physical body. Then drink it, feeling it consciously entering your stomach and let it do its work.
“I AM a Great Being beyond that event! This experience made me learn better who I AM. I AM thankful.”
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December 17th, 2009 at 11:43 pm
Thank you Christophe,
This is so timely, I have a client in need of direction and this is for her, I am passing it on this morning.
Have a wonderful Festive Season, gusts of warm breeze from Australia.
Felice Navidad.
Beth
December 18th, 2009 at 4:51 am
Thank you Christophe Wonderful advice! It will be a joy to play with these wonderful tools to release and step more fully into a greater me
Love
Michael
December 19th, 2009 at 11:08 am
Wow!! Christophe, that was so well-phrased. I truly felt the releasing and understanding as I read through your wonderful letter.
I never thought so deeply about these things until now…and the water, too. Of course, it does have life force and ability to help our bodies (we are made mostly of water) but I never thought of this simple yet profound way to ask before we drink.
Thank you for helping me “see”.
Joy!!
Glenda
December 19th, 2009 at 8:32 pm
Thanks Glenda
December 22nd, 2009 at 8:10 am
This is such a Beautiful and timely message, Christophe! Thank you for providing such wonderful spiritual tools for us to work with and share.
Love and Blessings,
Betty
April 15th, 2010 at 7:38 pm
Wonderful Expression , Christophe…
First thought: If The Experimenting Time and Space linked together with cords-ropes become something saturated…it means that the Life Force become like breath-in and laugh-out!
Imagining in this state of unfolding New Creation Abilities within a nice Momentum of Inner Passion,
In Joy with You, Aurelian
April 15th, 2010 at 8:08 pm
Again in the Now resides the power, glad you liked it !
Joy to You Aurelian!